There are situations that, if you had been able to take advantage of them, would have driven you in your personal evolution.
How many laps have to be given to the solar system to find meaning in life? It is a difficult question to answer, however, perhaps the only ones that have a clear answer are the go getters, that is, the people who are willing to change the world with small actions despite the multiple mistakes they make while they are I pass by this planet.
The brain does not rest, it insists on complicating our existence because it intends to convert us, through questioning – also known as Socratic maieutics – into something better. However, not to be a person full of regrets and “would have”, you have to stop living between dreams and take advantage of the moments that life puts you in front of you to become someone better.
* If you missed them, the important thing is NOT to repeat it *
Complete the project that you left unfinished
Living is not the same as surviving. If you have a stopped project and you sigh every time you think about it, maybe the time has come to dust it off to start living a freer life. An unfinished personal project is like having sex without reaching orgasm.
Forget that person who changed you for someone else
The verb “would” does not exist, perhaps one of the most certain and ignored proverbs. If you already suffered the consequences of returning to your ex, ignore that inner voice that reproaches your terrible decision. It hurts and it takes work, but now it only remains to learn the lesson.
Travel in your sabbatical
If your sabbatical year did not give you the time to travel and know beyond your block, face the work scheme will not be easy. You will realize how much you wasted your free time and you will understand that to get more, you have to use everything you have at hand, including your savings.
Learn the language you always wanted
The advantages that people who have more than one language have are multiple: traveling and communicating is not a problem, they work practically in whatever they want and their income will always be higher. If you still do not master the language you have always wanted, you will never know what you are capable of.
Defend that person who needed it
Being empathetic with others makes us feel good, however, sometimes out of fear, convenience or laziness, we prefer to keep silent and stand aside while we see how injustices happen before our eyes. Being a go getter is not easy, but the world can be changed with small actions.
Take that opportunity that you missed
There are many opportunities, but there are few that are specially designed for us. No relationship, fear or anguish should prevent you from taking risks and be better every day. If you already made a mistake, ignore the past and do not repeat the same mistake.